Work With Me: Ongoing Programs for Deep Transformation

This is where lasting change begins.

If you’re ready to go beyond one-off sessions and truly commit to your growth, healing, and embodiment, I invite you to explore my long-term programs. These curated journeys are designed to support you over time—offering a sacred container where deeper integration, consistent support, and meaningful transformation can unfold.

Whether you’re looking to break free from porn addiction or want to feel more connected to your sexuality in a healthy, confident way, you’ll be supported with personalized guidance that blends modern tantra with practical tools to release stress, feel more in control, and build a healthier connection to your body and sexual desires.

This is an opportunity to work with me in a more sustained, intentional way—ideal for individuals ready to create lasting change in their lives and relationships.

Let’s walk this path together.

Freedom from Fantasy: A Journey Beyond Porn Addiction

For individuals ready to break free from porn addiction and reconnect with their body, power, and purpose.

This is a private, 1-on-1 intensive healing journey designed for clients who are truly committed to change.

You've Tried to Quit, But You Keep Going Back

You’ve promised yourself “just one last time”—but days or hours later, the cycle starts again.

You feel the guilt, the shame, the secrecy.

You wonder if something is wrong with you.

You may even feel numb in real-life intimacy… or struggle to feel fully present with your partner.

Porn may be free—but it’s costing you your confidence, relationships, and peace.

It has become increasingly common for me to see more and more men struggling with porn addiction in my practice. It breaks my heart and I want to help you find a solution. 

You’re Not Alone — But It’s Time to Break Free

  • Over 80% of men and 60% of women report using porn regularly.
  • Nearly 1 in 5 people say they feel out of control around it.
  • Excessive porn use has been linked to sexual dysfunction, emotional detachment, and loss of real-life intimacy.

But here’s the truth most don’t talk about:

Porn isn’t the problem—it’s the pain it’s trying to numb.

And that’s where healing begins.

What If You Could Rewire Your Mind/Body… and Reclaim Your Life?

This work isn’t about judgment.  It’s about honoring your desire for connection, and learning to meet it in healthier, embodied ways.

If you’ve tried to quit on your own—only to fall back into shame—you’re not broken. You’re just dysregulated, disconnected, and needing support.

Freedom from Fantasy: A Journey Beyond Porn Addiction

In these 8 sessions, you’ll be guided through:

  • Somatic awareness & nervous system regulation
    Learn how your body responds to triggers—and how to interrupt the cycle before it hijacks your mind.
  • Uncovering the emotional root
    Identify the pain, loneliness, trauma, or inner void that porn has been masking.
  • Healthy pleasure & connection
    Explore how to feel desire again without dissociation, guilt, or fantasy taking over.
  • Reclaiming your masculine/feminine polarity
    We’ll work on helping you connect and integrate both aspects of Self—so you feel grounded, confident, and whole.
  • Tools for relapse prevention
    Learn powerful spiritual and practical tools to stay present with your urges through my revolutionary Sacred Pause methodology—a transformative practice that helps you meet addictive urges without collapsing into shame or acting it out.

This Isn’t Just About Quitting Porn — It’s About Remembering Who You Are

Many of my clients come in feeling:

  • Hollow
  • Ashamed
  • Like a failure from unsuccessful attempts at NoFap
  • Afraid they’ll never be able to have real connection or healthy sex again

After 8 sessions, you’ll leave feeling:

    • A truer sense of freedom—no longer chained to compulsive behaviors or secrecy
    • Sexually grounded and self-respecting
    • Reclaim your energy and focus—so much more becomes possible when your energy isn’t being drained
    • Reduce shame and guilt, leading to a healthier sense of self-worth
    • Able to access real intimacy without fantasy or performance

Investment & Commitment

This program is for individuals ready to go all in.

What’s Included:

    • 8 private sessions
    • In-person or virtual  
    • Personalized between-session practices
    • Email/text check-ins (limited) to support integration

Ready to Stop Numbing and Start Living Fully?

I only take on a few clients at a time for this journey. To apply, please email me at findallegra@gmail.com. 

Client Testimony

“When I first met Allegra, in 2021, I was a broken man, self-described as a sex addict, and had lost my sense of self emotionally, constantly looking for that next dopamine hit. And the only way I could get aroused was with porn. And I would watch it everyday, masturbating daily and sometimes multiple times, getting aroused by images on a screen. However, with a woman, I had a lot of struggles getting aroused even when I desperately wanted to, and it made my ability to experience intimacy with my partner nearly impossible. Allegra has helped guide me to change. My first session, we talked openly about sexuality and arousal as well as emotional well-being and self-care.

As time has passed and I have put into practice, the wisdom and guidance of Allegra’s experience. It is now a daily, self-care practice of being mindful of staying in the present moment and experience life in reality and not through a platform or device. That natural dopamine is so much better for me than seeking it out via social media, porn, & chatrooms. That engaging and being present with the people I interact with has been a game changer for me. I now, after being completely off social media and chat rooms and reducing my porn use, have zero problem getting aroused with a woman and my sessions with Allegra are the guiding reason for it. She has helped me recognize that I am a much better lover being focused on the physical human I am with and not one on a screen. I am very grateful for my time with Allegra and her helping me recognize why I was broken and what I needed to do to make it better. Now in my early 50s, I am excited for a great, natural & healthy relationship, full of intimacy and great sex.” EM.